Many people have different views on sexual relations. Understanding each other is the most important thing for a healthy sexual relationship. Sex gives men and women a different experience. While sex is a physical thing for men, it is also more of an emotional event for women.
Casual sex, which is a meeting between people who do not have much emotional attachment, is different from sexual relations between lovers or life partners. Even such relationships that are only for sexual pleasure without conditions often create complications in women. For men, such relationships do not reach the emotional level. Men can see casual sex as just a physical relationship.
However, the opposite is true for women. Studies suggest that casual physical contact fills women with emotion and turns them into love. While women generally cannot achieve sex without love, it is not applicable for most men. Men can enjoy sex even if they do not have any emotional attachment to their partner.
A man does not necessarily feel love for a person who has sex without any attachment. However, for women, even if there is no love before sex, sometimes the relationship can create love in them eventually. Studies suggest that the secret behind this is the difference in the hormones produced in the bodies of both.
During sex, women produce oxytocin and men produce testosterone. Oxytocin is only produced in men when they are in physical contact with the person they love. The reason why women feel they are in love and men do not when they have casual relationships is due to hormonal differences between them.