There are certain phrases that women have heard since the dawn of time. These include being modest and humble, patient and compassionate, knowing cooking and housework, obeying father and husband, not going out alone, not wearing revealing clothes, not talking loudly...the list goes on. But do women really want to hear such things? Girls these days definitely don't want to hear these things.

Women are always praised for their beauty, cookery and culinary skills. However, very few women would want to hear such praise. More and more women today want to be recognized for their abilities and their values. There are many women today who want their actions and words to be recognized and applauded. These are the words strong-minded women want to hear.

• You are very honest and transparent. I'm sure I can trust you.
• You have many talents.
• You are very intelligent. Very insightful.
• You are very caring and consider others highly.
• You are very brave and are willing to take risks.
• You are very inspiring.
• You make everyone smile.
• You are very dependable and always available. You stand up for me.
• You are a hard worker.
• Your friendship is very precious to me.

Remember, these are the things most women want to hear. Nobody would want to hear repeated criticisms, accusations and taunts.