
We often see some people deliberately avoiding large crowds and crowded places. Many people think that this is because of fear of crowds or because they are introverted. However, psychologists say that this is not the case and that such people are not as timid as we think, and that this is because they have many other qualities. Some people live alone, not because they lack social commitment or are not people persons. Rather, many of them have strong mental health.
Those who enjoy solitude for a long time cannot be controlled by external circumstances or other people's behaviour. Psychologists say that their own thoughts help them find peace. They can go on a solo trip and enjoy it. Even if some difficulties suddenly arise, they will not panic. They have complete faith in their ability to find a solution to the problem.
Many people who live a life of constant solitude may develop a heightened sensitivity to their environment and internal experiences. Being alone all the time does not mean that these people cannot be busy. They can also be distracted by conversations and other cues in the crowd.
Loneliness can be very scary for some. They will think that there is something scary and worrying around them. However, for those who have been alone for many days, this is not a problem. They have emotional discipline. They have learned to deal with problematic situations with their minds.
What to do? Where to go? How to get there? Those who live alone will have their own clear answers. They will observe every small change in the surrounding nature and through this they will get the opportunity to create happiness for themselves. This is how rain, greenery and sunshine make some people happy.
People who are used to living alone will think that it is their responsibility to make themselves happy, not anyone else's. Therefore, they will have a clear decision about how others should treat them. They tend to get angry only when others cross that line. It is also important to make sure that such people are not suffering from anxiety disorders.