"Not ready to compromise self-respect, Krishnakumar didn't attend mother's funeral", Sandeep Varier expresses loss of hope

Youth leader Sandeep Varier shared the personal reasons that led him to distance himself from the BJP. Sandeep stated that his decision stemmed from an emotional disconnect with Palakkad NDA candidate Krishnakumar. He noted with disappointment that Krishnakumar failed to offer any condolences following the passing of his mother—a time when leaders from rival parties, including the CPM and Congress, came forward in support.

‘Son of Govinda Warrier, an Indian Army veteran who served in three wars and Rugmini, a respected headmistress of Chethallur School, cannot compromise his self-esteem’, wrote Sandeep.

Facebook post (roughly translated)

I have been under a lot of stress lately. Despite my requests for privacy, media personnel continue to follow me but I understand it's their duty. I am deeply grateful for the outpouring of love and support from my friends and loved ones during this time.

Many recent reports about my feelings regarding the convention are inaccurate. It's not true that I'm upset about not getting a seat; those who know me understand that I don't seek such recognition. I am a humble BJP worker who holds the flag, shouts slogans and puts up posters.

However, I have faced significant mental challenges and I believe self-esteem is crucial. This situation isn't just about a single event; it's a culmination of experiences. I cannot compromise my self-respect. My parents—Govinda Warrier, a soldier who fought three wars and Rugmini, headmistress of Chethallur school—instilled that in me.

I wish luck to Krishnakumar Ettan, but it’s disappointing to hear him say we've worked together since our Yuva Morcha days. We have never collaborated directly. When my mother passed away two years ago, I was serving as a state office bearer. Yet, he did not reach out to comfort me or my father. In contrast, leaders from CPM and Congress offered their condolences.

I feel that emotional support is essential in these times and it was painful not to receive it from those within my own organization. I was expecting a call or gesture from someone senior that I respect. While I wish Krishnakumar Ettan the best, I cannot return to a place where I feel humiliated. This message is to clarify my feelings and address the misunderstandings among those who care for me.