KOZHIKODE: Divorce cases in Kerala have risen by 87% over the past five years, according to data from family courts across the state. The number of divorce cases increased from 18,886 in 2020 to 35,238 in 2025. On average, 2,418 couples filed for divorce every month in 2025.
Lawyers and counselling experts say more young women are choosing not to get married. Instead, many are focusing on higher education, careers and financial independence. At the same time, more young men want to marry at an early age. However, most of them are finding it difficult to find suitable partners.
Experts also say that some of those reluctant to marry include survivors of sexual abuse and people from broken families. Counsellors say parents often approach them with such young men and women seeking guidance.
Another emerging trend is the growing acceptance of open marriages, where married couples mutually agree to have other partners. According to Anas Tharakan, Assistant Professor at GEMS College, Malappuram, the fear of marriage or long-term commitment, known as gamophobia, is also increasing among young people.
Psychiatrist Dr Vivek Ullattil said the number of newborn babies in the state is also declining.
Thiruvananthapuram reported the highest number of divorce cases in Kerala, followed by Kollam, Ernakulam and Thrissur. Wayanad recorded the lowest number of cases.
The total number of divorce cases filed in family courts increased from 30,647 in 2024 to 35,238 in 2025.
District 2024 2025
Thiruvananthapuram 3,875 4,946
Kollam 3,788 4,208
Ernakulam 3,750 3,945
Thrissur 3,393 3,773
Alappuzha 2,854 -
Kozhikode - 2,827
Main reasons for divorce
Suggested ways to strengthen marriages
"More people now believe that sacrificing their own interests for their spouse and children is meaningless."
- Dr Arun B. Nair